"He didn’t need to make that call — and surgery would have had all sorts of other consequences"

As we move forward in the Yemei Hasefirah, we continue on a daily focus of growth and tikkun hamiddos. Can you think of something someone did for you that stands out as an example of exemplary character?

In 2001, I had developed a chronic stomach condition that was very difficult to bring under control. Several hospital stays and medication sought to remedy the situation, but it was an ongoing struggle. And so, I decided to seek out a second opinion, and was convinced to opt for surgery. A member of my congregation who was seeing the same original specialist happened to mention to him how unwell I looked on Shabbos. This prompted the specialist — from whom I had since moved on — to call my wife and ask after me. When he heard I was opting for surgery, he pleaded with her to have me call him. Ultimately I was back in his office, drastic surgery was averted, and although it took time, baruch Hashem, I began to heal.

Seeing me only a couple of years ago he said, “If I didn’t know that you had what you had, I would not now know that you still have it.” He didn’t need to make that call — and surgery would have had all sorts of other consequences. I remain indebted to Dr. Martyn Caplan.

—Rabbi Y.Y. Schochet, rabbi of the Mill Hill Synagogue in London, England

(Originally featured in Mishpacha, Issue 858)