Perspectives

Tuesday, January 27, 2026

Two Exes and a “Why?”  

Why must the children bear the brunt of the conflict between their parents?

Guestlines

Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Make Up Your Mind Already!  

Why does someone who has a poor self-image have such a hard time making up his mind?

To Be Honest

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

How to Get Your Spouse to Diet

One of the best ways to get your spouse to eat well is to stop taking responsibility for their food habits

Perspective

Tuesday, March 18, 2025

Making Good Marriages Great Again  

“If you continue for just a few more sessions, however, you could have a great marriage”

Guestlines

Tuesday, July 30, 2024

How to Criticize Your Spouse (and Get Away with It)    

In my years of advising couples how to effectively communicate criticism, I have developed four guidelines

Guestlines

Tuesday, May 14, 2024

Two Childhood Traumas

Whenever anyone, adult or child, suffers a trauma, anything that reminds him of the trauma will serve as a trigger that causes the person to re-experience the same fear, helplessn ...

Guestlines

Tuesday, December 05, 2023

Wimps No More

Self-defense is not only permitted by the Torah, it is actually encouraged

Guestlines

Tuesday, July 11, 2023

Ice Skating and Miniature Golf

If the Master Matchmaker has placed you together with your spouse, it is for the purpose of helping you grow

Guestlines

Tuesday, March 21, 2023

The Camel and the Car

When a mother weans her child, she is actually giving him the priceless gift of independence

Guestlines

Tuesday, January 31, 2023

Teaching Children to Lie

if you punish children after admitting wrongdoing, you may be teaching them to lie

Guestlines

Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Managing Expectations

We must manage our expectations by trying to keep them as close to reality as possible